You want to know what I think is incredibly short sighted? Groups who could learn promotions from me and who would benefit from my help not figuring out one hand scratches the other's back theory.
I am seriously disgusted by this. It's why I quit doing a monthly calendar for kink in general. I decided a while back after wasting a year cross promoting everyone while I was on the board, that this is total bullshit. I helped build everyone's clubs. I helped hump too many events for people who show absolutely NO gratitude for my efforts.
So here is my answer - uh fucka youa.
For real.
Folks can't support me and my efforts, well then I am just applying the rule : Do unto others....
It sickens me how selfish people can be....and stupid.
And I would have offered groups a chance to make some money during the quarterlies...given them a code to profit off my event for their benefit.
Now...well, shit I don't even want to see some of their fucking faces. I will just build my own audience.
Oh and I will STOP telling my attendees about their clubs - so KIDDIE POOL, HPEP, ETC forget my help.
If you want my guests to know about your groups guess what? YOU CAN BUY AN AD WHEN I START MY PRINT OUTS FOR DISTRIBUTION. And you can all pay full price, while those who do send representation will be getting a DISCOUNT.
So sick of this shit. Eighteen fucking years of it. SICKENING.
Thursday, August 22, 2013
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Ask questions
I love waking up to see no one as a collective can seem to ask any freaking questions when all they see is "drama". Seriously people?!?
Ask - why if nothing else.
For those who have asked me here is what I have responded with:
Evidently when the vote to allow the SOs of board members at the special committee meeting where they were going over the new bylaws, and she voted against any of them being there. This makes NO sense considering Feral is the one who wrote them and could explain easiest and change things quickest. Well she lost the vote on this and proclaimed "Then I won't come in protest".
I explained that truthfully as long as the club was going under the current by laws her presence was not even required, because as Chair she does not have a vote until the other board members tie. But rather than put up with her shit behind the scenes the two with big integrity decided to go out with a polite bang.
I honestly did not know it was happening until after it was already on the HPEP group. And since I took myself off that group weeks ago, I learned it from Celli and then Rob in my feed. To be frank, they were being treated horribly by her and they shouldn't have to put up with that shit for a volunteer position. No one should.
And then Jade quit when HKJ tried to put up some bullshit excuse. First Jade's boy called her out on it and then Jade quit. See her blog for details.
*************end note***********
So why aren't you asking is there a dictator in our mist? Someone who created a hostile situation that forced three really good and experienced people out? [I stand firm that the first of the four who are no longer there should have been forced out - and possibly maimed for her theft.]
Why haven't any of you noticed how someone in particular has changed? It's clear to many of us, but we are the types who pay attention and many folks are just bumble stumble bees.
I felt compelled to block four people last night. Three have been annoying the pants off me for months and the fourth one was someone who thought she had some place to come at me, even though I don't fucking know her dumb ass. I won't argue with strangers. Why bother?
Why bother is my new motto in terms of dealing with this organization [and I use that term graciously at this moment]. I did what I promised last year. I will NEVER do it again because I DO NO WISH IT.
Ask - why if nothing else.
For those who have asked me here is what I have responded with:
Evidently when the vote to allow the SOs of board members at the special committee meeting where they were going over the new bylaws, and she voted against any of them being there. This makes NO sense considering Feral is the one who wrote them and could explain easiest and change things quickest. Well she lost the vote on this and proclaimed "Then I won't come in protest".
I explained that truthfully as long as the club was going under the current by laws her presence was not even required, because as Chair she does not have a vote until the other board members tie. But rather than put up with her shit behind the scenes the two with big integrity decided to go out with a polite bang.
I honestly did not know it was happening until after it was already on the HPEP group. And since I took myself off that group weeks ago, I learned it from Celli and then Rob in my feed. To be frank, they were being treated horribly by her and they shouldn't have to put up with that shit for a volunteer position. No one should.
And then Jade quit when HKJ tried to put up some bullshit excuse. First Jade's boy called her out on it and then Jade quit. See her blog for details.
*************end note***********
So why aren't you asking is there a dictator in our mist? Someone who created a hostile situation that forced three really good and experienced people out? [I stand firm that the first of the four who are no longer there should have been forced out - and possibly maimed for her theft.]
Why haven't any of you noticed how someone in particular has changed? It's clear to many of us, but we are the types who pay attention and many folks are just bumble stumble bees.
I felt compelled to block four people last night. Three have been annoying the pants off me for months and the fourth one was someone who thought she had some place to come at me, even though I don't fucking know her dumb ass. I won't argue with strangers. Why bother?
Why bother is my new motto in terms of dealing with this organization [and I use that term graciously at this moment]. I did what I promised last year. I will NEVER do it again because I DO NO WISH IT.
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